Benny was grateful for the food, but he wouldn't be pushed down by etiquette. "And that is good you have a safe place you know well. There's nothing with not changing if you're happy and all your needs are met. But.." He eyed the man, almost daring him to argue with him. "If this is such a happy place, why do you act so scared? And why must you be so angry at the very idea of something else?" He gestured to the man and pushed the plate back to show he wouldn't take his kindness any more if he wasn't welcomed. "I am merely offering a second possibility."