Benny nodded, "I think I remember Rose mentioning something about your older brother being gone. Well, you don't have to murder. But you could run away, or take advantage of others so no one can question the child's father. I've traveled around, some places are much kinder about this sort of thing. You tell them the tragic story of your first love , how he took your heart and made you think you would be married only to run off on you, it could shed a lot of tears in the right place."