He was disturbed at her language, but kept himself from commenting on it. One step at a time. "But you can't be a nun and a mother and wife at the same time, Kitty. We only have one life, and if we take on too much, we will fail all our responsibilities. Being a nun means nothing else can distract us. Its an absolute dedication to God and a life of prayer." He nodded at her belly. "Whether planned or not, whether conceived in or out of wedlock, this child is your first responsibility now."