Menachem nodded but smiled at the offer of a drink. "Yes, one more for the road." He gestured for the waiter then looked at her. "Don't be so glum, most people are smart so things like that aren't going to happen to you if you're careful. Just keep what I said in mind, too many women here think running and screaming will save them. It will only do so much. If you have a head good enough to be a governess hopefully you're good enough to avoid danger. And you have a pretty face, make friends and you won't be alone." He quickly held up a hand, "but still never completely trust your friends, only a fool thinks he is immune to betrayal."