Menachem's brow lowered. "Yes.. something people are expected to do at some point in their lives if they do things right are only told of it when its looming at their doorstep or they figure it out on their own.. " He shook his head as he didn't want to discuss this sort of thing. He stopped eating and simply folded his hands as he couldn't order another drink as much as he wanted to. "Don't think about it, just know that some people shouldn't be considered human. Be careful and aware at all times. Carry and hide a weapon if you can, if you can't.. " He gestured to his eyes, then his throat, then down below. "Everyone is weak at their eyes and their throat, so if you are in danger don't hold back. Claw, grab, tear, they don't deserve your mercy if they don't listen to 'no' and you can't run. If it's a man, between his legs is another sensitive point if you can kick there." He tilted his head if that was all he could merely tell her. "Just always be careful, you don't have to be polite when you are being safe. And Whitby is a dangerous place.'